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Article: What to Give a Lawyer, and What a Lawyer May Accept

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Field Guide No. 12 · Gifts for Lawyers

What to Give a Lawyer,
and What a Lawyer May Accept

A Gift, or a Joke?

By James Kaywell · A lawyer for 26 years · Active member of the District of Columbia Bar


The right gift for a lawyer is something used on Monday morning: a pen that signs, a book for the year, a desk pad, or leather that carries the file. Not a joke about lawyers, and not a gavel. A parent, a spouse or a friend may give a lawyer in private practice anything that fits the occasion; no rule of professional conduct reaches the gift. The rules apply in three cases: a client thanking a lawyer, a lawyer thanking another lawyer for a referral, and anyone giving to a lawyer who works for the government. All three are more forgiving than people fear, and this guide quotes them.

It is written for the person doing the buying, who is usually not a lawyer, and it runs in the order of a career: law school, graduation, the bar exam, the oath, the first trial, partnership, a long anniversary, retirement, and the client's thank-you at any point along the way. If the lawyer in your life has just learned a bar result, the gift is the pen, and the bar-exam section says which one.

The rules quoted are the ABA Model Rules of Professional Conduct, the federal Standards of Ethical Conduct for executive-branch employees, Florida's gift statute for public officers and employees, and the Internal Revenue Code's business-gift limit, checked October 2026. Every state writes its own rules of professional conduct, most of them built on the ABA's model; your state's rules govern your state's lawyers.

At a Glance

Occasion Who usually gives What fits Our pieces run
Starting law school Parents, family A padfolio for the legal pad, a desk pad, a journal, a first good pen, a laptop bag; from the wider family, a glasses case or a wallet $44–$545
Graduation Parents, family, close friends A portfolio or bag for the first job; the pen for the career $155–$590
Passing the bar Family, friends, the firm The pen that signs the first pleading $60–$192
The swearing-in Family A fountain pen for the career; a card case or wallet once there are cards $115–$876
A first trial, a verdict, a closing A spouse, a colleague The planner or journal that records it; a pen; a glasses case or luggage tag $47–$130
Making partner A spouse, parents, the partners The briefcase worth the title $475–$1,295
A long anniversary The firm, the partners A pen or a briefcase sized to the years $715–$1,295
Retirement Colleagues, family, former clients A journal, leather for travel, the pen the career never had $65–$876
The client's thank-you The client Modest by design: a journal, a planner, a pen, a wallet or a glasses case $47–$115

Decide who you are to the lawyer before deciding what to give. The next section is about why.

Sheaffer 300 fountain pen in glossy black lacquer with gold-tone trim, on garnet marble Churchill Classic Briefcase in tan full-grain leather, front view
The Bar Exam
The Partnership

The Argument

Who You Are to the Lawyer

Five kinds of giver. Four of them have a rule to know, and none of the rules is hard.

Ground I — Family and Friends.

Give what fits the occasion. There is no rule.

A lawyer in private practice may accept anything from a parent, a spouse, a sibling or a friend. The rules of professional conduct govern what a lawyer does for clients and before courts; they say nothing about a birthday. Even the strictest regime in this guide, the one for federal employees, steps aside for family: an employee may accept a gift given "under circumstances which make it clear that the gift is motivated by a family relationship or personal friendship rather than the position of the employee," and the factors are "the history and nature of the relationship and whether the family member or friend personally pays for the gift."1 Pay for it yourself, and the daughter who became an Assistant United States Attorney may have the same pen as the one who went to a firm.

Ground II — A Client.

A simple thank-you is expressly permitted. The rule is aimed at the lawyer, not at you.

ABA Model Rule 1.8(c) provides that a lawyer "shall not solicit any substantial gift from a client, including a testamentary gift, or prepare on behalf of a client an instrument giving the lawyer or a person related to the lawyer any substantial gift," unless the recipient is related to the client.2 Read it again and notice who is doing the acting. The lawyer may not solicit, and the lawyer may not draft. The comment then says what a client may do: a lawyer may accept a gift from a client "if the transaction meets general standards of fairness," and the example given is "a simple gift such as a present given at a holiday or as a token of appreciation."3

That sentence was written for the gift you have in mind. Two limits follow from it. Keep the gift modest in proportion to the matter, because a substantial gift from a client may be voidable for undue influence and puts the lawyer in an awkward spot. And never give anything that would require the lawyer to draft a document, which is the one thing the rule forbids outright. A pen, a journal, a planner, a bottle of something: yes. A clause in your will: no.

Ground III — A Lawyer Thanking Another Lawyer for a Referral.

Nominal, and plainly a thank-you.

Model Rule 7.2(b) forbids a lawyer to give "anything of value to a person for recommending the lawyer's services," and then lists the exceptions. The one that matters here lets a lawyer "give nominal gifts as an expression of appreciation that are neither intended nor reasonably expected to be a form of compensation for recommending the lawyer's services."4 The rule puts no dollar figure on "nominal." The working test is whether the gift could be mistaken for a fee. A good pen or a leather journal sent at the holidays to the lawyer who sends you work is an expression of appreciation. A gift priced to the size of the last matter is something else, and both lawyers know it.

Ground IV — A Government Lawyer.

Family and friends give freely. Everyone else has numbers to respect.

Federal. Assistant United States Attorneys and agency counsel work under the Standards of Ethical Conduct for Employees of the Executive Branch. For a gift that comes because of the job, from someone who does business with the office or has an interest in its work, the general exception is small: "unsolicited gifts having an aggregate market value of $20 or less per source per occasion," so long as the total from any one person "does not exceed $50 in a calendar year," and the exception "does not apply to gifts of cash or of investment interests."5 Inside the office, a subordinate ordinarily may not give to a superior, with two exceptions worth knowing: items other than cash "with an aggregate market value of $10 or less per occasion," and "a gift appropriate to the occasion" on infrequent occasions of personal significance "such as marriage, illness, bereavement, or the birth or adoption of a child," or on occasions that end the working relationship, "such as retirement, resignation, or transfer."6 Retirement, in other words, is the day a federal lawyer's colleagues may give a real gift.

State. Every state has its own gift law for public officers and employees, and they differ widely. Florida is the worked example here. A "reporting individual" or "procurement employee" may not knowingly accept a gift worth more than $100 from a vendor, a political committee or a lobbyist who lobbies the person's agency, and must report gifts over $100 from other sources each quarter, with gifts from relatives excepted.7 Whether a particular government lawyer is a "reporting individual" depends on the office; the lawyer will know. The $100 figure is a limit on vendors and lobbyists and a reporting line for everyone else, and it does not reach a gift from a relative at all.

The rule of thumb for any government lawyer: a gift from family or a friend who pays for it personally is fine; a gift from anyone with business before the office needs the office's ethics official, who can answer in a minute; and a letter of thanks, copied to the supervisor, is accepted everywhere and does the lawyer more good than a package.

Ground V — A Lawyer Who Works for a Company, or a Firm with a Policy.

Ask first.

In-house counsel work under their employer's gift policy as well as the rules of professional conduct, and company policies vary too much to summarize. Law firms sometimes set their own caps on what lawyers may accept from clients and vendors. We found no published figure that holds across firms or companies, so we will not give you one. If the lawyer works for a company, or the firm may have a cap, ask the lawyer's assistant what it is before you shop. Tell us the number and we will keep under it.

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

Gifts for a New Law Student

August and September. Three years of reading begin.

Law students take their notes on legal pads, as they will for the rest of their careers, so the gift that goes to class every day is the one that carries the pad. The Brief ($245), our own padfolio, holds the pad, a pen and the day's handouts, and it is the piece a student is still carrying into a courtroom ten years on. The Docket ($195), our zip portfolio, closes over the lot and survives the bottom of a bag; the Joy in the Morning binder portfolio ($195) is the choice for a student who wants rings. Under the pad, Korchmar's Carter desk pad ($110) goes on the desk for the next three years and then follows the graduate to the first office.

A leather journal is a different gift, and a good one. It is for what the syllabus leaves out: a diary of the year, the ideas worth keeping, notes on the books read for pleasure, and the private questions, comments and observations not fit for the legal pad. The Desk Leather Journal ($95), made by Gallery Leather in Trenton, Maine, is the right size for that; the Large Leather Journal ($115) for a student who writes a lot.

The first good pen belongs here too, and it should be a pen a student can lose without grief. The Sheaffer 300 comes as a ballpoint ($44 in glossy blue), a rollerball or a fountain pen (to $76 in glossy black and gold), and it is the pen for three years of outlines. For a student who already writes with a fountain pen, the Pelikan P205 ($176) is a serious pen at a student's price. The laptop goes everywhere a law student goes, so the bag matters more than the briefcase does: The Chambers ($545), our own laptop bag in full-grain leather, or the Orlando ($330) from Time Resistance. For a student who would rather carry it all on both shoulders, A Bend in the River ($345), a full-grain leather backpack that will still look right on the first day of work.

The small leather goods are the gifts for the aunt, the grandparent and the friend. Three years of reading are three years of reading glasses, and The Riddle of the Sands glasses case ($65 to $70), in Italian vachetta, folds flat in a bag. The move to a law-school apartment is the moment for the Ryder dopp kit ($175), Korchmar's full-grain dopp kit, and for a wallet that will last through the bar exam and the first job: The Retainer ($155), our bifold, or the Excellent Women zip-around wallet ($110) from Time Resistance, in black or cognac.

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

Law School Graduation Gifts

May. The gift is for the job that starts in the fall.

A law school graduate is not yet a lawyer. The bar exam comes in July, the results in the fall, and the first day of work somewhere between. So the graduation gift looks past the summer to the first interview, the first client meeting and the first commute. The Brief padfolio ($245) or The Docket zip portfolio ($195), from our own House Collection, holds a legal pad and a résumé and looks right across a table from a hiring partner; the Joy in the Morning binder portfolio ($195) is the choice for a graduate who wants rings. For the commute, The Chambers laptop bag ($545), or the Orlando laptop bag ($330) and The Sound of the Mountain briefcase ($330), both in Italian vachetta from Time Resistance. For the pocket, The Retainer bifold wallet ($155), which replaces the one that saw the graduate through school. For a graduate who will not fill a fountain pen, the Esterbrook Estie rollerball ($169).

For a daughter graduating from law school, with $200 to $600 to spend: the Shirley work tote ($445) or The Woman in White ($325) if she carries a bag to work, the Vendetta attaché ($430) if she carries a case, or the Esterbrook Estie with an 18-karat nib ($590), a pen she will still be signing with in twenty years. A son gets the same list with the Orlando in place of the tote. With less to spend, the Excellent Women zip-around wallet ($110), which a woman lawyer will carry every day, or The Counsel card case ($115) for the cards that come with the first job.

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

Gifts for Passing the Bar Exam

The easiest gift in this guide. Give the pen.

Results from the July exam arrive state by state from late August into the fall; Florida's and Georgia's came on 18 September this year and Illinois's on 1 October, and others follow through the fall.10 The February exam reports in the spring. Whenever the news comes, the gift is the pen, for a reason beyond tradition: the first thing a new lawyer does with the license is sign something, and the pen that signs the first pleading is the one that gets kept.

It is also the easiest gift in this guide. Until the oath is taken the recipient is not yet a lawyer, so no rule of professional conduct reaches the gift, and the firm may give as freely as the family.

A pen for someone who just passed the bar, with $100 to $300 to spend: the Esterbrook Estie rollerball ($169) for a lawyer who will not fill a fountain pen; the Estie fountain pen ($179) or the Pelikan M200 ($176 to $192) for one who will. Esterbrook is a name that dates to Camden, New Jersey, in 1858. Under $100, the Sheaffer 300 in glossy black and gold: $60 as a ballpoint, $76 as a fountain pen, and a pen a new associate can carry into a deposition without a second thought. Add a bottle of ink to any fountain pen; Pelikan 4001 Brilliant Black ($16) is the one to start with. A friend who wants to mark the day without buying a pen gives The Counsel ($115), our card case, for the cards that follow the license, or The Riddle of the Sands glasses case ($65 to $70). Which pen suits which hand is the subject of two earlier guides, Fountain, Rollerball, or Ballpoint? and Fine Nib, or Medium?

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

A Gift for the Swearing-In

The oath makes the lawyer. Give the pen for the career.

The admission ceremony is the day the family gives the pen that is meant to last. From parents, the Pelikan Souverän M400 ($500) in the black-green stripe that is Pelikan's signature, or the Estie with an 18-karat nib ($590). From a family that means it, the Souverän M800 ($740), the M400 at full size, or the M1000 ($876), the largest of the line. For a new lawyer who will not uncap a fountain pen in a courtroom, the Souverän R800 rollerball ($476) or K800 ballpoint ($396).

The second gift is for the business cards that arrive the same week. Our own card case, The Counsel ($115), holds the cards that are handed across a table; The Retainer ($155) is the bifold for the pocket. The S.T. Dupont Iconic billfold ($375), the Paris house's wallet in black leather, is for a new lawyer whose old wallet has done its time, and the Excellent Women continental wallet ($110) for one who carries more than cards. Which case suits which habit is Card Case, or Card Wallet? The third, for the files, is the Vendetta attaché ($430). If the person taking the oath is becoming a judge rather than a lawyer, the rules change entirely, and The Pen, or the Plaque? is the guide to read.

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

A First Trial, a Verdict, a Closing

A small gift that marks the date.

The first trial, the first verdict, the first closing a lawyer runs alone: these are the dates lawyers remember, and the giver is usually a spouse or a colleague, so the gift is smaller and more particular. The Professional Weekly planner ($115) rules each weekday in half-hours, which is a trial day by another name, and its monthly pages run from July 2026 to June 2028. The Large Leather Journal ($115) becomes the trial notebook, and the Pocket Weekly planner ($47) rides in the jacket to the courthouse. The planners can be foil-stamped by the maker with the lawyer's name or initials, $8 to $15 more; allow eight business days. A pen that marks the occasion without ceremony is the Esterbrook Estie ballpoint ($115). From a colleague, something smaller still: The Riddle of the Sands glasses case ($65 to $70) for the reading glasses that come out for the exhibits, or The Recess luggage tag ($75) for a lawyer who tries cases out of town. Why a lawyer should still keep a paper calendar at all is Paper, or Screen?

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

Gifts for Making Partner

The briefcase worth the title.

Partnership is announced when the firm votes, and the gift that fits it is the one a lawyer rarely buys for herself: a briefcase that will outlast the title. The Churchill ($715), made by Korchmar in Naples, Florida, is the one we point to first, in tan or black. The Silk ($1,295), our own structured briefcase, is the other; the two are compared in The Churchill, or the Silk? For a partner who already has a case, the Pelikan Souverän M800 ($740), or the S.T. Dupont Classique ballpoint ($475) for the signing table, from the Paris house that began in 1872 making cases for diplomats, with its Iconic billfold ($375) to match.

The givers are a spouse, parents and the other partners, and no rule of professional conduct restricts any of them. The firm's own gift to its new partner is the firm's business.

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

A Long Anniversary at the Firm

Twenty or twenty-five years. Size the gift to the years, not the year.

For a partner's twenty-fifth year at the firm, with $500 to $1,500 to spend: the Pelikan Souverän M1000 ($876), the largest pen Pelikan makes, with a bottle of ink, for a lawyer who has signed with lesser pens for a quarter century. The Churchill ($715), if the case that carried the first twenty-five years has earned its retirement. Or The Silk ($1,295), if the title deserves a case that was made for it.

If the lawyer already uses a lighter, an S.T. Dupont is the one gift here that is also an heirloom: the Ligne 2 Perfect Ping ($1,295), named for the note its cap makes. If you have to ask whether they would use it, give the pen.

A firm's gift to its own partner raises no rule of professional conduct. The one number a firm should know is the tax one: a business deducts no more than $25 per recipient per year for gifts,8 which is why so many corporate gifts come in at $25 and says nothing about what the firm may give. We are not tax advisers; the firm's accountant will know how the gift is treated.

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

Retirement Gifts for a Lawyer

The career is closed. Give for what comes next.

Retirement widens the circle: colleagues, family, former partners and former clients may all give, and the gift looks forward rather than back. The Large Leather Journal ($115), for the memoir or the notes toward one. The Souverän M1000 ($876), if the career never had its pen. For the travel that follows, The Circuit passport wallet ($175) and The Recess luggage tag ($75), a name that suits an adjournment now made permanent, with the Ryder dopp kit ($175) in Korchmar's full-grain leather or the Madame Bovary jewelry roll ($100) for the trips that no longer wait for a recess; and for the reading that finally gets done, The Riddle of the Sands glasses case ($65 to $70). For a lawyer retiring to a desk at home, the Carter desk pad ($110) under the pen.

In a government office, retirement is the occasion the rules name: colleagues may give a retiring federal lawyer "a gift appropriate to the occasion" on an occasion that ends the working relationship, "such as retirement, resignation, or transfer."6 A former client may give too; the modest measure of Rule 1.8 is still the sensible one, and a letter that says what the lawyer did for you is the part of the gift that will be read more than once.

The Docket · Which gift, which occasion

The Client's Thank-You

Modest by design, and expressly allowed.

The comment to Rule 1.8 permits "a simple gift such as a present given at a holiday or as a token of appreciation,"3 and the gifts here are chosen to be exactly that. The Desk Leather Journal ($95). The Esterbrook Estie ballpoint ($115). A Sheaffer 300 ($60 to $76). A 2027 planner, pocket ($47) or desk ($115), which a lawyer will open every working day of the year you were a client. The small leather goods belong here too: The Riddle of the Sands glasses case ($65 to $70), the Excellent Women zip-around wallet ($110) for a lawyer who carries more than cards, The Counsel card case ($115) for one who carries fewer. None of these could be mistaken for a fee, and none requires the lawyer to draft anything.

Write the note. Lawyers keep files, and a letter of thanks is the one page in the file the lawyer did not write. If your lawyer was a public defender, a prosecutor or counsel to an agency, the gift rules in Ground IV apply and the office may be unable to accept anything but the letter; send it anyway, copied to the supervisor, where it does more for the lawyer's career than a package could.

On Film

What to give a lawyer, by the moment

Ninety seconds on nine career moments and the gift that fits each one, from the firm they just opened to the retirement — presented by our founder, a lawyer of twenty-six years.

Watch on On the Record, with the transcript · The Gift Guide

What Not to Give

Three gifts that do the giver no credit

A joke about lawyers

They have heard it.

The mug, the shark, the framed maxim, anything engraved "Esq." A lawyer has been given every one of them, usually more than once, and they go to the drawer that holds the others. The title of this guide is the whole test: if it is a joke, it is not a gift.

A gavel

Lawyers never hold one.

The Federal Judicial Center notes that "judges rarely (if ever) use gavels during court proceedings,"9 and lawyers never do. On a lawyer's desk a gavel is a prop from a profession the lawyer does not belong to.

Anything that could be mistaken for a fee

Or for a bribe.

Cash or its equivalent to a government lawyer: the federal $20 exception "does not apply to gifts of cash."5 A gift to a referring lawyer priced to the size of the matter.4 A gift to your own lawyer large enough to need a document. Give an object, keep it in proportion, and the question never comes up.

By What It Costs

If There Is a Budget, or a Cap

One clean price on everything. Prices and stock as of October 2026.

Budget The pieces
Under $100 Sheaffer 300 pens ($60 to $76) · Pocket Weekly planner 2027 ($47 to $62) · The Riddle of the Sands glasses case ($65 to $70) · The Recess luggage tag ($75) · Desk Leather Journal ($95) · Pelikan 4001 ink ($16)
$100 to $250 Madame Bovary jewelry case ($100) · Carter desk pad ($110) · Excellent Women wallet ($110) · Estie ballpoint ($115) · Large Leather Journal ($115) · Professional Weekly and Large Monthly planners 2027 ($115 to $130) · The Counsel card case ($115) · The Retainer bifold wallet ($155) · Estie rollerball ($169) · Ryder dopp kit ($175) · The Circuit passport wallet ($175) · Pelikan P205 ($176) · Pelikan M200 ($176 to $192) · Estie fountain pen ($179) · Joy in the Morning portfolio ($195) · The Docket zip portfolio ($195) · The Brief padfolio ($245)
$250 to $500 Camilla ($275) · The Woman in White ($325) · Orlando ($330) · The Sound of the Mountain ($330) · A Bend in the River ($345) · Souverän K800 ($396) · S.T. Dupont Iconic billfold ($375) · Vendetta ($430) · Shirley ($445) · S.T. Dupont Classique ($475) · Souverän R800 ($476) · Souverän M400 ($500)
Over $500 The Chambers laptop bag ($545) · Estie 18K ($590) · Churchill ($715) · Souverän M800 ($740) · Souverän M1000 ($876) · The Silk ($1,295)

If the firm or the company has a cap on gifts, ask what it is and tell us; we will keep under it.

Before You Buy

Three things to know

Have it sent to you, not to the lawyer. The packing slip shows what you paid, so have the order sent to your own address and hand the gift over yourself.

Personalization. We do not monogram, emboss or engrave. The one exception is the Gallery Leather dated planners, which the maker can foil-stamp with initials or a name. To personalize anything else, write to us before you order and we will see what our makers can do.

Buying for a firm. A firm buying for several lawyers at once, or for its clients, should start at For Firms. The occasion-by-occasion shopping grids, with four pieces for each, are on our Gifts page.

Questions Presented

Questions we get

Answered directly, one at a time. Each answer names the rule it relies on.

What is a good gift for a lawyer?

Something the lawyer will use on Monday morning. A pen that signs, a leather journal or dated planner, a desk pad, a wallet or card case, or a case that carries the file. Not a joke about lawyers and not a gavel. If you cannot decide, give the pen: every lawyer signs something every day. A parent, spouse or friend may give a lawyer in private practice anything that fits the occasion; the rules on what a lawyer may accept apply to clients, to lawyers thanking other lawyers for referrals, and to government lawyers.

Can a client give a gift to their lawyer?

Yes, within reason. The ABA Model Rules forbid a lawyer to solicit a substantial gift from a client or to draft the document that makes one, but the comment to Rule 1.8 says a lawyer may accept a gift from a client if the transaction meets general standards of fairness, and gives as its example a simple gift such as a present given at a holiday or as a token of appreciation. Keep it modest, and never give anything that would require the lawyer to draft a document: a leather journal, a good pen, a wallet or a glasses case, each with a note of thanks, which is worth more than a larger gift without one.

Can I give a gift to a lawyer who referred a client to me?

Yes, if it is nominal. ABA Model Rule 7.2(b)(5) lets a lawyer give nominal gifts as an expression of appreciation that are neither intended nor reasonably expected to be a form of compensation for recommending the lawyer's services. The rule does not put a dollar figure on nominal. The practical test is whether the gift would look like a fee: a good pen or a leather journal at the holidays passes; something priced to the size of the matter does not.

Can I give a gift to a government lawyer?

A family member or friend may; anyone giving because of the lawyer's job faces limits. Under the federal Standards of Ethical Conduct, a gift motivated by a family relationship or personal friendship rather than the position of the employee is permitted. A gift that comes because of the job falls under the $20 exception: $20 or less per source per occasion, no more than $50 from one source in a calendar year, and never cash. State rules vary. In Florida, a reporting individual or procurement employee may not accept a gift worth more than $100 from a vendor, political committee or lobbyist, and reports other gifts over $100 each quarter, gifts from relatives excepted. When in doubt, the office's ethics official can answer in a minute.

What do you give someone who just passed the bar exam?

A pen, and this is the easiest gift in the guide. Until the oath is taken, the recipient is not yet a lawyer, and no rule of professional conduct reaches the gift. With $100 to $300 to spend, the Esterbrook Estie rollerball ($169) for someone who will not fill a fountain pen, or the Estie fountain pen ($179) or Pelikan M200 ($176 to $192) for someone who will. Under $100, the Sheaffer 300 in glossy black and gold: $60 as a ballpoint, $76 as a fountain pen.

What is a good law school graduation gift from parents?

Something for the first job, which begins after the bar exam. A leather padfolio or portfolio for interviews and the first client meetings, a laptop bag for the commute, a wallet, or the pen for the career. With $200 to $600 to spend on a daughter graduating from law school: the Shirley work tote ($445) or The Woman in White ($325) if she carries a bag to work, the Vendetta attaché ($430) if she carries a case, or the Esterbrook Estie fountain pen with an 18-karat nib ($590). For any graduate, The Brief padfolio ($245), The Docket zip portfolio ($195) and The Chambers laptop bag ($545) from our own House Collection, or the Orlando laptop bag ($330), are the ones we point to first.

What do you give a lawyer who just made partner?

The briefcase worth the title. The Churchill ($715), made by Korchmar in Naples, Florida, is the one we point to first; The Silk ($1,295), our own structured briefcase, is the other. If the new partner already has a case, the Pelikan Souverän M800 fountain pen ($740) or the S.T. Dupont Classique ballpoint ($475) for the signing table. No rule of professional conduct restricts a gift to a lawyer in private practice from family, friends or the firm.

What is a good gift for a partner's 25 years at the firm?

A pen or a briefcase sized to the years. With $500 to $1,500 to spend: the Pelikan Souverän M1000 ($876), the largest pen Pelikan makes, with a bottle of ink; the Churchill briefcase ($715); or The Silk ($1,295). A firm's gift to its own partner raises no rule of professional conduct. If the firm or company has a gift cap, ask what it is before you shop.

What do you give a retiring lawyer?

Something for what comes next. A Large Leather Journal ($115) for the memoir or the notes toward one, The Circuit passport wallet ($175) and The Recess luggage tag ($75) for the travel that follows, or the pen the career never had. Colleagues, family and former clients may all give. In a federal office, retirement is named in the rules as an occasion on which staff may give a gift appropriate to the occasion to a superior.

How much should I spend on a gift for a lawyer?

No rule sets a price for a lawyer in private practice; spend in proportion to the relationship and the occasion. The numbers that do exist belong to particular givers. A federal employee may accept $20 per occasion and $50 a year from one source for gifts that come because of the job. Florida's $100 figure is a limit on gifts from vendors and lobbyists and a reporting line for others. A business deducts no more than $25 per recipient per year for gifts under 26 U.S.C. § 274(b), which explains why corporate gifts cluster at $25 and says nothing about what you may give.

What is a good gift for a woman lawyer?

The same pen and the same leather, in the shapes a woman lawyer carries. For the office, the Shirley work tote ($445), The Woman in White tote ($325) or the Camilla shoulder bag ($275), all in Italian vachetta from Time Resistance. For the pocket and the bag, the Excellent Women zip-around continental wallet ($110), in black or cognac, which a woman lawyer will use every day; The Riddle of the Sands glasses case ($65 to $70); and the Madame Bovary jewelry roll ($100) for travel. The pens are the same for everyone: the Esterbrook Estie or a Pelikan, sized to the hand.

What is a good gift for a lawyer under $100?

A Sheaffer 300, a glasses case, a luggage tag, a desk journal or a pocket planner. The Sheaffer 300 is $44 to $76 depending on finish and whether it is a ballpoint, rollerball or fountain pen. The Riddle of the Sands leather glasses case is $65 to $70, The Recess luggage tag $75, the Desk Leather Journal $95 and the 2027 Pocket Weekly planner $47. A bottle of Pelikan ink is $16 and turns a pen into a set.

Is a gavel a good gift for a lawyer?

No. Lawyers never use one, and the Federal Judicial Center notes that even judges rarely, if ever, use gavels during court proceedings. On a lawyer's desk a gavel is a prop from a profession the lawyer does not belong to. Give the pen instead.

Can I give a gift to a judge?

Family and close friends may; a lawyer with a case before the judge should send a note instead. The rules for judges are different and stricter, and they turn on who is giving. They are set out in Field Guide No. 11, The Pen, or the Plaque?, and the gifts themselves are in our Gifts for Judges collection.

Closing Argument

Decide who you are to the lawyer, then give what will be used. Family and friends give for the occasion, in proportion to the relationship. A client gives a simple thank-you and writes the note. A lawyer thanks a lawyer with something nominal. A government lawyer's friends give as friends, and everyone else asks the ethics official first. Then choose the pen on the desk, the book for the year, the case for the files. The joke goes in the drawer. The pen stays in the hand.

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Notes

  1. 5 C.F.R. § 2635.204(b) (gifts based on a personal relationship). Regulation ↩
  2. ABA Model Rules of Pro. Conduct r. 1.8(c). Rule 1.8 ↩
  3. ABA Model Rules of Pro. Conduct r. 1.8 cmt. [6] (a substantial gift "may be voidable by the client under the doctrine of undue influence"). Comment ↩
  4. ABA Model Rules of Pro. Conduct r. 7.2(b), (b)(5). Rule 7.2 ↩
  5. 5 C.F.R. § 2635.204(a) (gifts of $20 or less). Regulation ↩
  6. 5 C.F.R. § 2635.302(a) (gifts to superiors); § 2635.304(a)(1), (b). § 2635.302 · § 2635.304 ↩
  7. Fla. Stat. § 112.3148(4), (8)(a) (2026); "reporting individual" and "procurement employee" are defined in § 112.3148(2)(d), (e). Statute ↩
  8. 26 U.S.C. § 274(b)(1). Statute ↩
  9. Federal Judicial Center, Judiciaries Worldwide: Gavels. FJC ↩
  10. National Conference of Bar Examiners, July 2026 Bar Exam Results (updated Oct. 6, 2026). NCBE ↩
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The rules cited are the ABA Model Rules of Professional Conduct, the federal Standards of Ethical Conduct for Employees of the Executive Branch, Florida's gift statute for public officers and employees, and the Internal Revenue Code, checked October 2026. Your state's rules govern your state's lawyers and differ in wording and occasionally in effect. Nothing here is legal or tax advice. A lawyer with a question asks the state bar's ethics counsel; a government lawyer asks the office's designated ethics official; a giver who is unsure asks the lawyer's assistant before buying.
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